This "It's my job" idea...

This mentality that "It's my job to serve my family" is probably the best thing I've done to shift my mentality of what I do at home.

This morning I was ready to leave for work.  Darcia asked me to cut up kiwi for Trinity's lunch.  Honestly, I didn't want to.  (I really am selfish.)  But "It's my job."  I promised to do anything I was asked.  So happily I cut up kiwi.

This mentality made me shift from "Do I want to?  Not really.  <Complain.>" to "I'd be glad to."  It's my job to serve them, not do what I feel like.